Tag: Self-Compassion

The #1 Tool for Overcoming Shame

Shame is a heavy burden that many of us carry. Whether you’ve made mistakes, hurt someone you care about, been hurt by someone you feel you should’ve stopped, or not lived up to your full potential, you may hold feelings of deep regret and humiliation. These experiences and the feelings and beliefs that come out…

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Why do therapists love “I statements” so much?

If you’ve been in therapy, taken a parenting class, a couples communication class, an anger management class, or worked with a mental health professional in pretty much any capacity, you’ve probably heard about “I statements.” They are a basic tool in the communication toolbox, and for good reason. While “I statements” alone won’t magically turn…

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Hope: The Essential Element

“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.” -Albert Einstein Hope is the belief that you may be able to have what you want. It motivates us to get out of bed in the morning. It gives us a reason to show up: because we think…

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Why is Self-Care So Important?

Most people respond to the idea of taking care of ourselves in one of two ways: a) It’s a no brainer – if I don’t take care of myself, who will? or b) It’s selfish to take care of myself. Where do you fall? If you’re in the second camp, let me explain how “self-care”…

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